How to save a marriage that’s about to fall apart?

12 01 2009

Marriage is the institution whereby men and women are joined in a special kind of social and legal dependence for the purpose of founding and maintaining a family.

It’s so heartbreaking to see that a marriage will just end after the long time of taking care of it.  The fact that filing for divorce is not usually the solution,  it just may cause extreme confusion to your children, and we don’t want that to happen.  Now, how are you gonna save your marriage?

If you and your partner are both commited to save your relationship, you can always seek for a professional help.  Aside from marriage counseling, there are other ways on how to save your marriage.

  • Learn to realize that there’s no such thing as a perfect marriage.  Every relationship has it’s own problems and yet there are solutions to every problems.  A couple who’s dreaming of a perfect marriage or perfect relationship is living on a fairy tale, which all we know does not exist.  You just have to learn how to fix your problems, and do it together.
  • Communicate.  It is very important in a relationship especially in marriage.  Have yourselves time to talk about the relationship, and as much as possible, forget about blaming and confronting each other, you had done all that.
  • Learn how to compromise with your partner.  It is one of the key component of a healthy relationship, especially in marriage.  It’s a give-and-take relationship that each party should learn.
  • The Commitment.  When you entered a relationship, there’s a commitment bonded.  Commitment plays the biggest role in your relationship.  Everything will be of no use if one of you is not interested at all.

Saving a marriage always depends on both parties, if both of you are really into it, then you can still save it.  Remember that you should always think of your children first before you, their future should not be at risk.




4 responses

31 01 2009

I could not have agreed more on the fact that “a couple who’s dreaming of a perfect marriage or perfect relationship is living on a fairy tale”.

You know its a call to help others with their relationship and i think that’s exactly what you are doing.

Good work keep it up.

31 01 2009
kate spencer

Hi Winston,

Thank you for dropping by. And hopefully my blog can help people on their relationships and also those who are planning to enter into it.
I visited your site on squidoo and I realized that we’re doing the same.. helping relationships. And you’re doing great too.

Cheers for both of us! 🙂

2 02 2009

it’s true that there’s no prefect marriage and in fact there is no such thing as perfect in this world. Everyone commit mistakes and everyone has its own problems especially in a relationship. As the writer of this blog said, filing for divorce is not the only solution to your problems, there are other ways of fixing your problems aside from divorce.

2 02 2009
kate spencer

Hi Nicole,
Thank you for your words. I’m glad to meet someone who has an open mind when it comes to fixing mistakes in a relationship. And in a relationship to work, both parties should take responsibilities over each other and always give respect to your partner.

I checked your blog and it’s amazing, all the recipes looks delicious.. I think I’ll try some of them at home. But it I fail, may I contact you for some help? and give some me some tips in cooking? That will be great. 🙂

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: